A care home in Espom is providing support for people caring for a loved one after finding that 55 per cent feel ‘overwhelmed’ by their caring responsibilities.
Appleby House on Longmead Road has launched ‘Here for you’ a guide packed with practical and emotional advice and support, after surveying 1,000 people who care for, or have responsibility for, someone over the age of 55.
The easy-to-follow guide has been designed to support those who care, and pools the expertise of Care UK’s care colleagues and fellow carers.
The study found that 66 per cent of carers in the South East said they never or don’t often ask for help with caring responsibility. A further 43 per cent admitted that they weren’t aware that there was government support available.
The guide provides information on the rights of carers and the help they are entitled to, as well as offering ways for them to continue delivering great care for their loved one while keeping themselves happy and healthy. Carers are also offered information on what to consider and how to proceed should they wish to explore respite or permanent residential care for their loved one.
Popular television presenter, Ruth Langsford, welcomes the publication of Appleby House’s ‘Here for you’ guide. She said: “It is sad but not surprising to hear about the pressure family carers put on themselves when looking after a loved one. My mum looked after my dad for ten years as his primary carer before we sought help and a guide such as ‘Here for you’ would have provided some help and comfort for us at a difficult time.”
Shona Bradbury, home manager at Appleby House, said: “Caring for someone can be incredibly rewarding, though it can also be physically and emotionally demanding. We want to remind people that if they’re caring for an older relative or friend, it’s important to remember that they may feel isolated or overwhelmed at times - but this is natural, and they are not alone.”
The study also revealed that 36 per cent of respondents in the South East admitted that they neglect their own wellbeing due to time being taken up by caring responsibilities. A further 28 per cent also said that they neglect their relationship with their partner, and 13 per cent even added their relationship with their children was negatively impacted.
Shona continued: “Though they often feel overwhelmed, many people don’t think of themselves as carers, and don’t recognise that care takes a variety of forms, from helping someone to get well after an operation, to popping in to have a chat with someone each day – this all constitutes caring, and the responsibilities can mount up.
“To pick up your free copy of Here for you, pop in to Appleby House, or download the guide at careuk.com/helpinghand. Our doors are always open, and our trained team is on hand to talk to people who care about the support available to them, as well as the different options for respite or permanent care for their loved one.”
For more information on Appleby House, please call home manager Shona Bradbury on 03300 572 255 or email firstname.lastname@example.org.
For more information on Appleby House, please visit careuk.com/Appleby-House.
‘Here for you’ is the latest in a series of advice guides for family carers from Care UK. For information on other available guides, please go to careuk.com.
Article supplied by Madeleine Read